Monday, April 24, 2006

Vibes

Vibes

It’s very important to understand your baby’s vibes. My Kiele doesn’t like to go to neighbouring houses – I really don’t understand why? Like if my neighbour in town comes to take her to their place the moment she steps in their house she will cry bitterly till one of us carry her. At the same time when this same neighbour comes and carries or play with her in our house, Kiele is very happy and excited and giggles and giggles to glory. At times I feel its good thing she is behaving now when she is small or else neighbours and friends would think that her parents are teaching her to behave in this manner.

Like yesterday we had gone to our suburban house – my neighbour out there is very fond of her so the moment we are there he will immediately come and carry her and he is so happy that we are there. As long as he carried her in our presence she was fine. He took her to his house and there she started crying and crying till she was brought to her house. There are certain places that Kiele is very uncomfortable and wants us to be there as well, she doesn’t get that positive vibes I guess and so her behaviour is different. So we have decided to go more often to the houses where Kiele doesn’t feel comfortable so that she sees us often talking and mixing around with our neighbours and she too gets attached to them and develop positive vibes.