Kiele’s 1st Performance Result Day in school.

My hubby, Kiele and self had gone to school to collect her result and to have a one to one discussion with her Class teacher. The teacher is very happy with her performance, her behaviour and said Kiele is a very well mannered and smart girl. The only problem with Kiele is she does not like to mix around with her classmates and does not participate in class activities as in Group discussions or other activities.


The problem with her is that she acts over matured and doesn't like to mix around with kids that easily. She likes to be spic and span and very meticulous in what she does and not like other kids who want to play around, get themselves dirty. create a commotion, etc.


I really do not know how to cope with this situation – if anyone can give me some ideas or suggestions as to how she should overcome this problem – will really appreciate.

Check out my darling Kiele Rica ‘s portfolio

Hey guys.. you must see my daughter’s portfolio and not to miss her facial expressions/pose – It was a great task for me and my hubby while her pictures were being clicked. It seemed as though she was a super star with the attitude that she was throwing at us. Gosh! It was too much for us to take it – I will give you just one instance even though there were many – like – after every few minutes or after a shot - she would require either a soft drink or water to sip and we had to dab her face. She would say I am tired so we had to take her downstairs for a walk – even though, her pictures were being clicked we were totally exhausted by the end of everything.

you guys can click here to check her portfolio..-> Kiele Rica 's Porfolio

My angel boy is now 5 months old

I must say that he is very cute and adorable – his smile takes all my worries and troubles and tiredness away in a jiffy. He is such a darling and he loves his sister abundantly – her voice makes him move and tries to catch sight of her. He just loves her and I hope this love continues for ever.

My Advice to mum-to-be and mothers

Advice to mum-to-be and mothers – if you have a second baby – my suggestion is to treat the older one with more love and care and importance. The small one is too small to understand and miss you and at its own time the older child will accept the little one lovingly without any hassle of not being loved.

3 months maternity leave

How 3 months just flew I don’t understand. Even though the leave was for my boy – I spent most of me time with my darling. I didn’t want her to feel that mama does not love her anymore or more attention is being given to my boy. I didn’t want her to anytime feel low and insecure so I gave her all the attention she required in those three months. In fact you wont believe my friends kept telling me that what I am doing is not right you hardly spend time with your son – but I had an explanation to give them by saying she needs it most now. I explained that kiele that he is your brother and mama and dada loves both of you dearly. She understood and taken things in a cool manner. She loves her lil brother lots and lots – I m sure its only because I made her feel that both of you are important.

Went on For a Week

The same thing went on and on – she would tell me mama you may leave I will go alone and then her tears would flow. This episode went on at least for a week and I would be patiently waiting at the parents waiting room for an hour or so.

I could spend hours at the parents waiting room is only because

I was on maternity leave I had just delivered my baby boy on May 19, 2008 and her school began on June 09, 2008. I could do this for complete three months is only because I was on leave – thanks to my baby boy. I wanted to be by her side at this crucial time of her start of school days. My main goal was that she should love going to school so I would then go to drop her and sit at the waiting room. I would leave my few days old baby boy in my mother’s care and leave for school early. I thought he is small so he will not be really missing me but my daughter yes.. she need me mosst at this time.

Kiele’s 2nd day in school

At home itself I prepared her – by saying that you will be making new friends. You will enjoy yourself sitting on all the rides. The teacher is excellent and so on and so forth and last of it I told her that if you cry then mama also will cry – do you want your mama to cry – I took her to school the second day. You guys wont believe what I experienced and what all mothers/parents would want to experience. My darling daughter at the gate itself told me mama you now go home – baby will go to the class alone – you may leave without a tear in her eye but from within she was choked while saying these words and I knew she would burst out crying immediately after she sees me gone. What I thought came true. I said good bye to her and went behind her slowly to check on her. She was sitting and crying in the class but I pretending as though I didn’t see her crying when she came out of the class. At home everybody asked her baby did you cry in school she was like no. this was all done only because she didn’t want to see tears in my eyes. I was so deeply touched you guys wont imagine how I felt like crying after seeing this sweet kind of behaviour.

Kiele is now 3 years old

Am back after very long and new things have happened since I last wrote.

My baby doll is now 3 years old. She has started her schooling too. Her first day in school was a terrible sight for me. I cannot get over it till now and don’t think will ever. Not only was she in tears but me too. She started crying and I just could not control myself from crying. Even though it was just for a matter of an hour that she would be in school but yet. I kept telling myself that enough I need to be brave and give her the courage if she sees me crying then what will she be going through. I tried controlling my tears. With great difficulty I bid good bye to her and I knew for sure she would not stop but could not help it had to leave her. For a second in fact I thought I would just take a back home but again that’s not right on my part. How long will this carry on she had to go to school someday if not this year then the next year.